There is a secret spell for improving safety culture.
You can begin without a new management system, an expensive campaign or another form. All you need at first are a few words:
How are you really doing?
The question looks simple. Used well, it can open a direct connection between organisational leadership and the reality of work. Used badly, it can do the opposite and weaken trust even further.
The decisive issue is not the question alone. It is whether you genuinely mean it.
Why do leaders become detached from the reality of work?
One of the most common and serious safety-culture problems is the distance between senior leadership and practical work.
The more layers an organisation has, the more intermediaries information must pass through. Every supervisor, manager and director interprets, condenses and selects information from a particular point of view. By the time the message reaches senior leadership, it may look very different from where it began.
Information is not necessarily distorted deliberately. Some details disappear because they are not considered important. Some problems are solved or clarified before they proceed to the next level. Bad news may also be softened because carrying it upwards feels uncomfortable.
I have seen organisations where leaders had access to enormous amounts of safety data but only a weak understanding of what was happening at the workplace and what people were thinking. The reports were comprehensive while the connection with everyday work was poor.
Leaders may not know what the atmosphere is like, how people are coping or which risks genuinely concern them. Everything may look controlled on paper even though practical work already shows signs of more serious problems.
The further leadership drifts from the reality of work, the more easily safety becomes a matter of completing forms, monitoring indicators and ticking requirements. Safety looks good in the system, while leaders no longer see the reality behind it.
When trust disappears, information disappears with it
The distance between leaders and employees is not merely a communication problem. It directly affects what the organisation is able to know about its own operations.
If employees feel that leaders do not understand their work or are not genuinely interested in it, trust begins to weaken. People then speak less about problems, uncertainty and unsafe working methods.
This is serious because employees are often the organisation’s most important source of safety information. Every day, they see where instructions do not fit real work, when equipment begins to behave unusually and where informal shortcuts have emerged.
Reports describe matters that have already been recognised. Employees can also describe problems that have not yet been recorded anywhere.
If people stop speaking, hazards do not disappear. Leaders simply lose the opportunity to detect them early. The organisation also loses sight of weak signals that could warn of an approaching disruption, accident or increase in workload.
Developing safety culture begins with leadership maintaining a direct connection with everyday work.
Go to people and ask them – genuinely
The question “How are you really doing?” does not work as an email survey sent from the executive meeting room.
The first step is to go where the work is done.
This is not a formal inspection in which a leader walks through the workplace carrying an observation form. The purpose is not to search for deficiencies, assess housekeeping or check personal protective equipment. The purpose is to meet another person.
The conversation can begin with an ordinary greeting and the kind of everyday talk that belongs to the workplace culture. Then comes the real question:
How are you really doing?
The word “really” changes the meaning. It tells the other person that they do not have to settle for the automatic answer, “Fine.” It gives them permission to say what is not fine.
The answer may concern an unsuitable tool, constant pressure, an awkward work method, a decision felt to be unfair or the employee’s own capacity to cope. It may not be the answer the leader hoped to hear.
That is exactly why the question needs to be asked.
Listen, respond and return to the issue
The question works only when the leader is prepared to hear the answer.
The first task is not to explain, defend or offer a quick solution. The leader must listen and try to understand. If they interrupt, begin correcting details or immediately justify the organisation’s actions, the space for conversation closes quickly.
Listening does not mean agreeing with every view or fulfilling every wish. It means taking the person and their experience seriously before drawing conclusions.
In a good conversation, the leader listens more than they speak.
But the conversation does not end with listening. If employees report the same problems week after week and nothing changes, these encounters lose their meaning. People begin to see them as another form of safety theatre.
Not every problem can be solved immediately. Even then, people can be told what will happen next, who is investigating the matter and when it will be revisited. If a proposed solution is not adopted, explain why and describe how the risk will be managed in another way.
Trust does not require a leader to promise every suggestion will be implemented. It requires that the information people provide does not disappear into the organisation without leaving a trace.
Do not ask “How are you really doing?” unless you are genuinely prepared to listen.
People quickly notice when the question is only a learned leadership technique. If the leader looks at a phone, rushes the answer or forgets the matter immediately afterwards, the interest does not appear genuine.
Pretended concern is not neutral. It can weaken trust more than never asking the question at all.
One conversation does not change a culture
One good encounter can matter greatly to an employee, but it does not yet change the organisation’s culture.
Trust grows through repetition and consistency. Executives, managers and supervisors must speak with people continually – not only on a safety day, during an audit or after an accident.
A practical goal is to organise leadership work so that nobody goes for long without a genuine conversation with their supervisor or another leader. At many workplaces, a suitable rhythm may mean at least one such conversation every week.
This does not mean a formal weekly interview. A brief encounter may be enough when the question is sincere and the answer is given room.
When conversations become a normal part of work, information does not need to wait for the next employee survey or formal reporting channel. Problems, changes and weak signals can emerge while there is still time to influence them.
Safety culture does not grow from one speech. It grows from repeated experiences.
Why does such a simple question work?
In the end, this is not magic. It is about fundamental human needs.
People want to be accepted and valued. They want their work to be noticed and their experiences to matter. It is especially important to feel that the organisation sees them as more than a resource, performer or part of a metric.
A sincere question opens space for a meaningful conversation. It shows that the leader is interested in the person, not only the result of their work.
As these encounters are repeated, a stronger community can grow around them. People dare to speak more openly, which allows problems to surface earlier and makes weak signals more visible.
This can support not only safety but also quality, workflow and wellbeing. The same conversation that reveals a safety risk may also uncover a production disturbance, an impractical work method or workload that has begun to affect an employee’s ability to cope.
Good interaction does not automatically eliminate accidents, sick leave or burnout. It does improve the organisation’s ability to identify underlying problems early.
Meeting people is therefore not a soft side issue in safety leadership. It is a central method for gathering information and building trust.
Safety culture exists between people
To develop safety culture, the distance between senior leadership and practical work must be made as small as possible.
Reports, systems, indicators and slogans cannot accomplish this by themselves. They are needed, but they do not replace a direct connection with the people who do the work and encounter its risks every day.
Leaders need to go to people, ask sincerely, listen more than they speak and return to the matters raised. Encounters must become a continuous part of normal leadership, not another safety activity to be ticked off.
Safety culture does not change on paper alone.
It changes one encounter at a time.
Ask: “How are you really doing?”
Mean every word – and be prepared to listen to the answer.
